That is awesome Islandmeadow. And I really liked what you said about being truly happy for people who want a pp and are having a pp. I am getting there, there are still days when I would think, "whatever " and roll my eyes when I hear pp moms say "oh I'm done, I got a boy and a girl". Makes me feel like I don't know what to say back, I mean, they know I have three daughters, do I say "oh I'm done too, I got three girls". lol. But now there are more days of me feeling good about mix gender families without feeling like they think I am not as happy as them even when some do still make the "I got a boy and a girl so I'm done" comment and that I am proud to show off my dd3 and am enjoying that I do get the attention from people, sometimes they are good, sometimes they are "oh my gosh, 3 girls!" but heck, it's what makes 3 of a kind special. And when I get the "oh my gosh, 3 girls!" comments, I just look right back at them and say proudly "yep!"