Well, I was pretty certain we wanted to go for baby #3, but now that the reality of ttc is setting in, I'm having doubts! Does anyone else go through this?
I feel like things are going well with two, and my gd is literally gone and I don't even really have a dg anymore. When I think of baby #3, the thought of another boy excites me just as much as the thought of a girl. My boys get along great and play together even though there is a 7 year age difference.
Of course, there are many reasons we want one more. For one, my first two are so far apart in age, that I would really like at least my younger child to have a sibling closer to his age. And, I would also like to provide my children & granchildren with a big family as they grow... My mom was adopted & and an only child and my dh's parents had only two children. So, my children have a total of two cousins. I grew up with virutually no cousins and was an only child until I was 12. I like the idea of building a bigger family for my future grandchildren. However, I worry about the finances of having three children (most college related expenses).
I'm just wondering if any of you ever feel this indecisive about adding to your family. How do you finally make the decision?