To cut a long story short. I desperately wanted a boy, mainly for cultural reasons (I'm from an Asian background so constantly get it in the neck for not having a boy). I used to get really down with the pressure of having a boy but deep down inside I had a strong feeling that I was carrying another girl. Anyway, i gave birth on the 20th......and it's a GIRL and I just LOVE, LOVE, LOVE her. I know I didn't get my boy but i do have another wonderful angel in my life. She's healthy and happy and that's all that matters...and I've fulfilled by dear husbands dream of having two daughters! I've already had a few comments from the community such as 'oh the third will defo be a boy' and the best yet...'maybe God just isn't on your side', but I couldn't care less about such small minded people. My little darling is currently curled up next to me and I wouldn't change her for the world.