Just as a reference, here's a scan of a boy at 20 weeks. The boy parts are so obvious to see.
I still think hers is a boy. The 'swollen labia" is too far off the body, IMO! If you look, it's pretty far out from the V of the legs.. I think it's scrotum.
Once again, hopefully lovemy4 or Coldwater will pop in.
ME 33, married since 2002
Cole 2004 Caiden 2006 Kody 2011 Jace 2012 My UNplanned home birth baby...
"Boys are meant for kisses and hugs, For watching rainbows and catching
bugs, For sharing all of your favorite things, For books to read and
songs to sing. Blue jeans and trucks, scrapes on his knees, Running in the Dirt, and being a tease. Making a face, and build and destroy. There's nothing like just being a BOY!" ♥♥♥♥