Just delivered after induction,i was told that it was a girl before and i had been asking for a miracle that may be all the three techs were wrong.anyways the thing is that its a girl.
People on this forum used to say that i will fall in love with her the moment i set my eyes on her and things like that but to tell you the truth,it is not happening,i am taking my responsibilities of taking care and feeding her but the bond in not developing thou she is cute and beautiful.what should i do?
Well the thing is that i wanted a brother for my son to play with,i wanted them to be partners,to have same interests,me and my hubby wanted another child just for him,not for us,coz we were happy with one son too,now we have a daughter and it is all so strange for both us as how to respond,i cry secretly,today in morning when i told my hubby he also cried too he said really supporting words to me,but i know him,he wanted a boy more than me as comming from an all boy family.
I dont know what to do?please please help me in this time?i think of trying for three,but the thing is that there will be 50/50 percent chance and i really cant handle another daughter.I am not unthankful to God,i know its a blessing and i am feeling guilty but i really cant cope.
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