Thanks for your comments. She just seems so happy with her daughter that I just feel like that she just hates boys for some reason.. I think her daughter is super cute and have said that to her many times.
This is a hard subject to bring up but I guess I have to do that if we're continuing to see each other..
I'm sure she is very happy with her daughter. However, she may still be gender bashing out of jealousy ~ it is probably unrelated to her current dd, but more connected to the fear that she will never have a ds. I wonder if she's recently found out it will be hard to ttc another or if her dh has told her he doesn't want any more children for financial or other reasons? Seems like something must have happened recently to trigger all of this since she didn't seem to do that before.
I'm sorry you're having to deal with this from a 'friend.'
As far as advice on how to handle the situation, I've seriously just had to cut certain people out of my life before because of issues like this (mostly unrelated to my children). Some people feel the need to elevate themselves above others to feel good about themselves and they will look for any opportunity to do so ~ be it about being a sahm vs a working mom, having a better job than you, having a better dh or ds or dd, living in a better neighborhood or town. People are very ridiculous in that sort of way.
You might try telling her. Look, I understand you don't like boys. I get it. However, when you continue to make negative comments about boys to me, it really feels like your comments are directed at MY sons and that is really hurtful. My boys are wonderful and I love them to pieces as I'm sure you love your own dd and I would never think of making negative comments about girls in general so I would appreciate it if you could stop making negative comments about boys to me.
IDK, it's a tough situation. These are the times when I ask myself: Is this person worth it? before I put forth too much effort to save a friendship.