I am so so sorry you are still dealing with this (you'd think they would have responded much much sooner!!!) but putting that contact aside is some relief I hope (that you finally got to talk to him).
I agree with you, you PAID for PGD, it should have been as accurate as possible!!! That's just bs about it not being X or Y, we ALL know gender is decided at the moment of conception!! Geez!!!! I swear they all take us for idiots!
I know you wanted 2 and 2, ~~~please, I want 3 and 3, lol, but there's a small, small spark of me that is happy daddy with the second set has 1 of each (sorry, no consolation, but....:) )
DEFINITELY get the word out there, it was thanks to you and everyone wonderful woman on this forum that I steered clear of Genesis (despite losing my twin boys) I did not have to go through the aggravation of dealing with Genesis that my RE INSISTED I MUST use. And he wonders why I challenged him on this!
To any ladies reading this for future PGD, PLEASE steer clear of Genesis! They have a 56% success rate at best!!!
I don't have any advice to offer, other than get yourself healthy, work on lowering your bp, your babes need you. In time, maybe, maybe you can try again? Wishing you the best!