Hi anyone reading this would be in a similar position to myself, I have three gorgeous, healthy, at times handful boys! i would not swap one for the world. I also suffered a miscarridge and wonder if that was my girl. Anyway I am now pregnant again, and of course the no. one question for anyone I tell is 'oh i bet you hope it is a girl!', to which i always reply with the standard as long as it is healthy I dont mind (which I do believe). My husband only wanted two children and I feel lucky that he has changed his mind and blessed me with four and an angel baby, we have discussed and decided that this will be our last child and that when I have to have my c-section I will have my tubes tied. We have had our scans and didnt want to find out what the baby was, have the last one a suprise however since having the scan I have become obssessed with finding out any clues from our ultrasound pics, it is consuming my time. Has this happened to anyone else?
I get so sick of comments already mentioned on here from people, I have so many standard responses now for gender assumptions my list is growing. I would love to have a little girl so I can talk to her about the world from a girls point of view, to give her opportunities I never felt I had, and to plan a wedding, etc etc. I know I can do all of this with my boys however I find it hard to swallow when everyone around me has a mixed sex family. Any tips to get over?