There are so many Aussies on this site now, it's great to see! I also have 2 boys and am going to try to sway for a girl this year. I adore my boys and wouldn't swap them for all the girls in the world, but whenever another friend has another baby girl, I do feel pangs of jealousy. It doesn't help that people make you feel like you're unlucky to have two boys. When DS2 was born, a lot of people said things like 'Oh no, not another boy', and made all sorts of pitying comments. it makes me angry. At least my boys are happy and healthy and I have a beautiful family.
I think little boys are just divine. What upsets me about having all boys, is where I'll be in 10, 20, even 30 years time, with no daughter. My mum is my best friend and I want that relationship with a daughter. Let's face it, no one has the same relationship with their MIL as they do with their mother, and I want a daughter, not a daughter-in-law. I don't want to be surrounded by footy and smelly feet and sports on TV and be the odd one out. I want a girly ally. Plus I would just like that balance in my family so it is not all male energy and testosterone!
My view on swaying, is that I will try my best to sway pink, but if we try our hardest and still get a boy, well, we were really meant to have that little boy! Little boys are just so gorgeous and squishy and cuddly.
I truly hope your DH does decide to have the reversal. It must be heartbreaking for you to have a yearning for another baby and have this hurdle in front of you.
GL with it all, and welcome to in gender, xx