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pregnant and very scared about miscarriage

Perla one day

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I suffered a miscarriage in December and am now 5 weeks pregnant and am very scared about miscarring again. Every time I go to the toilet I am afraid to see blood, I wish I could relax more and enjoy this pregnancy. Last time I didn't get any morning sickness which is very unusual for me, now I understand that I didn't get it because of the miscarriage. Now i would love to just get It for reassurance. I really hate feeling like this.

Baby Bear Boy12Baby Bear Boy9Baby Bear Boy3 HeartbrokenDec 2011 and a precious  10 dec 2012.

 

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I know how you feel! And honestly it sucks because only time can make it feel better. I had a m/c with my first baby, was scared to death the whole time with DS (and I did have bleeding bouts, so that made it worse). It's comforting to know that most people do have a normal pregnancy after a m/c, and that you are more fertile after one, and also that some bleeding means nothing. I am pregnant again now with #2, and I had spotting at 8 weeks, major period like bleeding at 14 weeks, and lots of bleeding off and on since then, and surprisingly it's all been very benign and the baby is perfectly healthy.

I just had to sort of take my mind of being pregnant for those first weeks. I would suggest keeping your regular schedule, I just worked like normal and that passed the weeks faster. I also waited until 10 weeks to tell family and 12 to tell work. That made it seem like the whole pregnancy was faster, and I didn't think about it as much when other people didn't know. I was like you though, hoping to get that morning sickness. For me it didn't start until about 6-7 weeks, so you're still early for it, and also I was comforted by having sore boobs. But I was surprised how fast they became not sore. They were mostly sore from 5-7 weeks.

So congrats on your pregnancy!!! I hope you get some of those symptoms soon so you can feel a bit more relaxed, and I hope the first few weeks fly by so you feel like you're past the "danger zone" Best of luck!

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Perla one day

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Catch, Thanks for taking the time to write. Sorry about your previous loss and congrats on your 2nd pregnancy. You must have been dreadfully worried with the bleeding, but thankfully the baby is fine. I too already have sore breasts since about a week and am very tired, but I had the same before the miscarriage, so am not reading into it. Just waiting and hoping for some mire signs to make me believe that I'm pregnant. You are so right in describing the first months as the danger zone. Am working and now the kids are on holiday so will be busy and hopefully take my mind Of things. Thanks so much for your advice, and GL for the rest of your pregnancy. X

Baby Bear Boy12Baby Bear Boy9Baby Bear Boy3 HeartbrokenDec 2011 and a precious  10 dec 2012.

 

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I have the same fears and I am at 15 weeks now.  I lost two in a row, a boy 10-28 at 16/17 weeks and then I lost another one at about 5 weeks on 11-9-11.  I got pregnant again in December after my first cycle and have been a nervous wreck since the day I found out.  Some days are better than others, but every time I go to the bathroom I am still looking for blood.  I over analyze my pregnancy symptoms and now that they're starting to taper off I am getting really nervous.  It's so hard after a loss.  ((HUGS))  I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy!!

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Perla one day

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I'm so do sorry about your losses. I can not imagine who awful it must have been for you. Hopefully all will be fine in this pregnancy. All the very best to you. X

Baby Bear Boy12Baby Bear Boy9Baby Bear Boy3 HeartbrokenDec 2011 and a precious  10 dec 2012.

 
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