12 + 2 Nub Shots - Please guess! UPDATE

Here is an actual pic (not linked, but embedded). It's not great - his spine is curled and the rump region is fuzzy AND I'm not even sure the nub is even visible. Just thought I'd see what others thought. Several have viewed, but no guesses. I wish I could just delete my sad little post, but can't find that option.  And I am using male pronouns because I'm sure that's what I have in there...

 Here's a second image. Not much better. Que sera blah blah blah.

 hi,i cant tell from your pics but hopefully someone more experienced will help you out,good luck and congrats on your baby

Carol,

Thanks for actually replying! I was beginning to feel like the very uncool girl at the junior high lunch table... The pics are NOT good, but I'm sure you can understand the obsession of trying to find out anyway.  Thanks again for taking the time to reply.

 aaww you rwelcome,,i totally understand how you feel,every guess means alot no matter if they can tell the gender or no,,hopefully more people will reply,,,are you going to hav a gender scan? and do you have preference? i have a scan next thursday but only going to be 15 weeks then but hoping he can give me a clear potty shot that will show me either boy or girl!! so exciting 

I can't make out a clear nub.  There is a partial one in the first pic but it's not clear enough to guess on.

 Cant see a nub but from skull theory (all a bit of fun mind you) Im guessing 

Will you be finding out the gender?

I honestly cant tell, 2nd pic isnt showing a nub (I think) and first one is way too busy down there, hope it is whatever you wish forx

Thanks, ladies! Yes, we will definitely be finding out in about a month. We didn't ask for a nub shot at the scan, and we got what we asked for. 

I was extremely disappointed last time when we found out we were having a boy - probably would have qualified for the extreme gender disappointment group. Anyway, I thought I would be okay this time - I fell in love with my son, of course - but I have realized I am NOT going to be okay and I will have some processing to do. I know that I will love another son, but I will always be very disappointed not to have had a girl - every time someone else has a girl, or there is a mother-daughter event I can't attend, and of course when my sons marry and I am relegated to the back corner in a drab dress. This is my last baby - unless I divorce and remarry. I'm not being dramatic, that's the plain truth of it per my husband. 

So, I know these pictures are crappy but I appreciate anyone taking a look. All the boy guesses just force me to face the very unwelcome truth that much sooner.

 I am hoping that you have  news to share in a months time and am blowing lots of pink dust your way 

I can't see anything clear enough to guess on, but I hope this is your girl. 

 sorry havnt been able to come on for awhile now,,how r u feeling? hope you hear gir,,when do u find out?

Well, I am going for a secret ultrasound next week at 15+2. I'm not telling my husband and I'm going alone. I just have such a strong feeling and have been really struggling - for all sorts of reasons I don't want anyone but one stranger to see my reaction when I hear boy again. I would love to be wrong, but I just can't believe anything but boy at this point. Thanks for asking. Are you going to find out about your new LO? What are you hoping for?

well let us know how u get on and there are forums on here about GD and alot of lovely ladies that have felt the same way as yourself that could give you support to get through this,fx'd you hear pink!!

 i had 15 weeks scan yesterday and asked if he could tell the sex of baby and after a good look between the legs for every position he said it was to early to tell, im not bothered if baby boy or girl aslong as he or she is healthy

 goodluck next week 

 any update?