Defenitely it is not clear, that is certain. I dont know if it is really a girl, but surely it also doesnt look typically boyish.
OMG this comment of your coworker, it is rude. I wish everyone to have their daughter but in this case, i do not want her to have her, after she experiences having the 3rd boy! May be she will then become a little bit more compassionate, and she will not think so in her heart, or even dare to explicit such words....! I am mad at such comments!!!!!
I think your position is still neutral, and all the same chances are for boy or a girl to turn out that it is in your tummy. You dont know yet!!!
2008, 2010, 2012 ... i love my boys, but is this the end of the road for me, or would i try again for a mother-daughter dream to come true?
As much as you want to plan your life, it has a way of surprising you with unexpected things, that will make you happier, that you originally planned. That's what you call "God's will" (unknown author)