ok thanks tamara i think i understand now :)
sorry to be a pest but can i ask a couple more q's please
i dont know if your opk test kits are the same as in the uk but mine is the clear blue fertility monitor and at min it has two bars showing for the last 6 days basically high fertility since first day after menses stopped ! is it normal to show this high a fertility so soon after menses ?
3 bars is peak fertility on this kit and shows the time it expects you to ovulate, so what i am thinking is i need to avoid dtd completely now till o+12 sorry to sound so stupid i just want to make sure i get this right for best chance !
sorry to go on but this is my first month weve actually tried after researching,
ok final question how do i work out when i am o+12 do i just count 12 hours after my opk shows peak fertility ? is there anything else i can do to make sure i dont tbm too soon !
think i need to go and read some more thread :)
thanks again tamara much apreciated :)