Rude people are the worst! I'd love to know what makes them think they have the right to comment about my family make up. While i was pregnant with my fourth, a stranger on a bus was talking to me, she said how lovely my boys were and how well behaved, she then asked if i knew what the gender of the baby was, i replied, (in a bright tone with a big smile) another boy........her reply, oh what a shame! I was so shocked, i said i dont think its a shame at all, im quite happy.......she then said, yes but you really should have had a girl this time, you need some one to look after you when you're older.............i lost my temper then! I told her that i didnt care i was having another boy, he was healthy and that was all that mattered! As for i need someone to be around when im older, thats not why i had my children, and if her children arent around for her, then theres probably a reason for that, such as being a horrid old woman with nasty opinions that would be best kept to herself! The worst part was, she was saying all this infront of my children! And my oldest is 6 so he is obviously going to understand what she was saying! She took such offence that i'd had a go at her, and was about to shout at me, when other people on the bus told her to shut up and think about what she'd just said.......she got off at the next stop!