I guess I should post this here...*sighs*

Well ladies I already posted this in another thread but thought I'd make a new post myself just so I could get advice or thoughts. I am actually hoping this month next month or whatever is a BFN!! I know it's crazy but I just got a job Thurs and I start Tues. And I am so beyond excited I've been out of a job for 2 years so this was a definite answered prayer!!! And it came just in time because now we can at least afford to get a condo! We have to be out of our apt in Dec cause that's when our lease is up. So MY WHOLE focus and energy has been on those two things. So the baby thing has kind of been pushed back. Of course I got the call after my DH had already BD for this month!!! I just feel like if I am pregnant next month it's just gonna be bad, bad timing. I know they can't fire you for being pregnant but it doesn't look good on my part just starting a new job and then 4 months later BAM say I'm pregnant?! I will be working at a Preschool so maybe they'll be more understanding I don't know! I just know NOW I dont really wanna concentrate on TTC. UGH! Life really does work in mysterious ways! XD

AND I just ovulated yesterday so now I am actually dreading a BFP. I'm tempted to go take a BC pill now. -_-

The same thing happened to me - I got the interview over with and discovered 2 days later I was pregnant. When they rang to tell me I had gotten the job I went 'Great BTW I'm pregnant and have only just found out!' (which I had). They were really understanding and I rocked up to my first day of work to see a big bunch of flowers on my desk and a congrats card. Don't worry about it TTC - it all happens for a reason and your possible pregnancy may be all the more better for it if you go to work as you tend not to agonise over every little detail when your mind is busy. Plus you'll find you will mesh well with your colleagues sooner as you will have a topic of conversation dear to most people's hearts (especially in a Preschool profession) GL!!

Aww thank you!!! That made me feel better!!!

TTC7783:

Aww thank you!!! That made me feel better!!!

Good it was meant to (its also true!! LOL) :-)

Is a lot of CM a sign you could be pregnant? I know it's not ovulation because I DEFINITELY Oed on Sat I'm only 4 DPO. I will add I have been feeling nauseus. And on the way home yesterday I felt this like sharp pain in my lower stomach. Any ideas??

you just jinxed yourself! i told you i tried and tried for 13 months to get my first then i found a great job and bought myself a shiney red convertable put the baby making on hold so i could enjoy life. BAM 2 weeks later a bfp

newbaby2011:

you just jinxed yourself! i told you i tried and tried for 13 months to get my first then i found a great job and bought myself a shiney red convertable put the baby making on hold so i could enjoy life. BAM 2 weeks later a bfp

LOL!!! Well if it happens I'll take it as an added blessing! :D

TTC7783:

Is a lot of CM a sign you could be pregnant? I know it's not ovulation because I DEFINITELY Oed on Sat I'm only 4 DPO. I will add I have been feeling nauseus. And on the way home yesterday I felt this like sharp pain in my lower stomach. Any ideas??

Could be - who knows? We all examine every little ache and pain when we are waiting for something to happen.] I was running around in a circle the other day at the gym in the group fitness class and felt this pang on my LH side and I spent the rest of the class thinking 'Is this it - if I implanted on LH does that mean I'm having a girl is it day 21 already' - seriously I mean everyone else was sweating coz they were hot and I was sweating because I thought this could be the month!!!]...sad but true :-)

Well aside from wondering if I'm pregnant. I'm finding being around kids again is only making me more depressed. I know it's only my 3rd day at work but seeing when parents bring their kids in and the hugs and kisses they get when they leave and pick them up just makes me wanna cry because it's something I want so bad...and it hasnt happened to me yet. I've already battled depression before and I hope this isn't triggering it again. :(

Chin up TTC - usually these things happen when you least expect them. I can see why it would be hard, a constant reminder of it all working where you are but you really need to try and keep your mind occupied right now. The sooner you do the sooner you will find that things will happen as you are not focussing on it. How long have you been trying? Warm hugs to you :-)

Keeping my mind occupied is easier said then done especially when your working with what you don't have all day. I'm not trying to sound mean but we also have infants and while I don't work with the infants I still feel envious that these parents have their little bundles of joy yes I know it could've taken them years and fertility treatments but that need and that desire to be a mom is always there no matter what. We've only been trying for 5 months but to me 1 month, 2 months 10 years it's still disappointing every month when you just want to happen right then. Unfortunately life doesn't work that way.

Well, not much more to say other than heaps of baby dust to you - job or no job :-) I hope it happens for you soon!

Ehh it prob won't happen for me I'm sure I have something wrong with me. Wouldn't surprise me. But thanks and best of luck to you as well.

Fingers crossed that you get what your heart desires. We are on month 14. It stinks every month.

yea just be patient hun. try not to stress about it, it really will help when you aren't so consumed by ttc. it took me 13 or 14 months to get pregnant with my first and that was trying every single month no breaks. now i can hold hands with my husband and somehow get pregnant.