My DH & I have just started trying to conceive again. We have twin boys (3) who were conceived using clomid, and recently lost a girl at 18 weeks gestation that was conceived naturally. We were gutted but can't get the thought of having another baby girl in our arms.
I do not ovulate myself regularly due to PCOS, and so am using clomid yet again with trigger shots. Because of this I am being closely monitored to avoid multiple follicles that would potentially result in more than 2! I am happy to have twins again (as long as one is a girl), but 3 would push it.. ha ha.
I know Shettles suggests having sex 2-3 days before O, but unfortunately I don't have this luxury as a scan is usually done and assuming all good to go, trigger shot is given and I O within 36 hours. I don't want to try theory where you bed after ovulation, as I think its too risky seeings and don't want to waste a cycle knowing Ive only got a few left till having to stop the clomid.
So, my question is: has anyone tried to conceive a girl while using clomid and not able to bed 2-3 days before O? If so what did you do?
Any advise would be great!
I am taking supplements of calcium, mag & cranberry as well as folic acid. DH & I are doing most of the girl diet, but more focussed on steering clear of certain foods.