If you do a search on Google or Yahoo you'll be able to find clinics in Michigan. Just type something like "IVF" and "Michigan" and ("gender selection" or "family balancing").
Also, PGD/aCGH is still successful without Microsort. Probably most women on here did PGD/aCGH without Microsort. In fact, many RE's believe Microsort damages the sperm, thus resulting in lower fert rates (my RE being one of them). It is no longer available for Family Balancing because the US Government decided it was not ethical. Here is a story on it: http://ieet.org/index.php/IEET/more/dahl20110517. You can find a clinic you wish to cycle with in Cyprus or Mexico and do Microsort there, but in my opinion, it is not worth it at all.