I just found this video of a organisation called 'heartfelt'.
Heartfelt is a volunteer organisation of professional photographers from all over Australia dedicated to giving the gift of photographic memories to families that have experienced stillbirths, premature and ill infants and children in the Neonatal Intensive Care Units of their local hospitals, as well as children with serious and terminal illnesses.
Watching this made me appreciate having a healthy child no matter what the gender.
http://www.vimeo.com/21748441