Congrats, Waiting4Daisy - i think I remember you from your earlier screen name! I was really hoping you'd get a girl but I am really happy to hear your attitude. We 3 boy moms need to stick together - it's a great life, it really is, and there are many times, even though my baby is only 6 months old, that I think it's the best choice for this family. I think the girl would have been for me, but a baby brother was the right thing for my sons.. They adore him and he adores them. He crawls/scooches across the floor constantly to join in their games, he babbles and smiles at them, and in the early hours of the morning, one of the twins will always say, 'ooh mommy I hear baby bruttha crying. can I go into his cot?" and when I walk in there, all 3 of them are all in the cot together cuddling up... Sure they might do this with a girl, but it's very sweet to see the 3 boys.
Another thing that has helped me feel better - babies require huge amounts of time and attention (duh.) In a way, having this be a baby boy eases my guilt, as I fear that IF it had been a girl, my boys might have gotten the wrong idea... ie, mommy is spending all of her time wtih the new baby and buying it all new dresses and pretty things because it's a girl and is more special than us. So strangely enough, I have less guilt fussing and loving over a new baby boy than a baby girl. (if that makes sense...) I bought this baby LOADS of new clothes but every once in a while, dress him in something his brothers wore, and that pleases them to no end, especially if I go through the photos and find pictures of them as babies so they can see themselves in the same outfit!
At any rate, congratulations, and really hope you enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. My GD peaked right before the birth, and I think it was mixed in with the hormones and the anxiety about the reality of bringing home another baby and how one earth would I manage, but I have to say the transition from 2 to 3 was smooth... I just had so much more confidence and was SO much more relaxed - even strangers would come up to me in the shops and tell me I was such a natural and so relaxed and that baby was the happiest most contented baby they'd ever seen.....
good luck with everything!