I had another scan on Sunday, it confirmed Boy. I was praying that it may have been wrong at my 20 week scan, now got to get my head round it. I have been to see a councilor re GD, she suggested another scan to know 100%, then said I should give hime an indentity. I feel so guilty still not excited. Althought 4d scan amazing, cute little face. Been thinking of baby as a boy now. Still keep thinking of number 4 and how I am going ttc pink. Just want to win the lotto and go in for the scientific method. I know I have to let number three be born and stop thinking or obsessing about a girl. Just seems so unfair that I have friends expecting girls and I bet my sis will have another one due just before me. I have told family and friends I am expecting a boy, I think they feel sorry for me, but they do not now the extent of my feelings and pain. To most it would just be dramatic and misunderstood. At least my boys are excited to have a brother. Can't really talk to DH he doesn't understand, he says maybe next time if we could be 100% sure of a girl ... anything to keep me happy he says. Not sure he really means this. Good luck to all you with mico scopes etc.. I just would be scared after I had two failed sways. Still I never tried the microscope or lime, does it really work ?? or was it just their time for pink?