needalil prince: Thank you so much for your help
I think now I will be joining you in the TTc in January. I usually O cd 17/18.. Hope that is boy territory?
Also was reading in another post that it goes by time of conception not by when we DTD..Is their anyway to have control of that? Or do we stay as close to the boy/girl sign and hope it implants within 21/2 days before it changes signs?
To check what moon sign you will O in, have a look on Lunarium. Go to calendars, then universal lunar calendar. It will tell you the exact date and time it changes, so you can plan ahead. Do OPKs leading up to O, and if you are going to O in boy time (and not just before it changes to a girl moon) then BD for that month. You will always need to adjust the times/dates given on Lunarium to where you live as the times are in London time.
Yes, it the moment of conception that is important, which is of course difficult to predict exactly. However, we know it can occur very soon after O, and the egg can only last for about 24 hours after O, so you want to BD in a month where you O in boy time and it is not just about to change to girl time.
Jan is not far away (hooray). Hopefully it will all end up being a good month for us. My attempt will be right at the end of Jan. And I'm more than happy to help. I want all of us to end up with our dream baby.