Princess, you know what I would do if my DH was anti-swaying? I would make him meals that were boy-friendly (lots of red meat, oysters for zinc...look up foods that are high in those things you wanted him to take via supps, kwim?), and then the rest is on your plate. Do the diet, the bsf, take your supps, everything you can do. When you are going to dtd, if you can sneak some ew up your vaj beforehand (I'll give you the CBBC ew sneak plan from a way previous thread in a sec!), that will help, but if not, maybe get some preseed and use it as lube, that is better than nothing and definitely better than regular sperm-killing lube like KY. The preseed is really just to help get pg either way, and it is touted as neutral on IG, but I think it is more boy sway, as the ph is 7. If you do a bsf and then use that, it will be higher. So, ew sneak: (do you old school CBBC girls remember this convo on the original thread????)- you get out the egg and let it sit in the bathroom (put it in a drawer or somewhere discreet) and let it get to room temperature. Then, when you are going to dtd, just say you need to go to the bathroom first and brush your teeth or something, and go in there and crack that bad boy open and insert a bit of the white in. IF you are so lucky as to have the time and perhaps a few minutes of privacy, and this is TMI, try to have a quick orgasm so the ew gets up there in your cervix. If you can't, just put some up there, but not too much so it's gushing out or anything. I would put it up there and then bear down for a second so the excess came out and I wasn't a sloppy mess, kwim? Then go do your thang and try to have an orgasm before he does, or at least anytime is better than not having one. As far as timing goes, there are LOTS of women, and also lots of evidence (Medic found a chart study on FF that shows it doesn't matter how much bd, what matters for boy is if you do it on O day or not), so have lots of sex if that's what he wants to do and don't worry about it. If your vaj is boy-friendly, you are upping your sway odds big time anyway. So, that's my advice!
So praying you other girls have sticky beans!!!!! I'm definitely skipping this month, so I will give you my info for late Feb or March, the next one! I don't like not being on the list. I'm just a cheerleader this month.