I just posted a similar response to Angelphoenix as she is in your same situation, but when I lost my daughter 25 days after birth (I had a C-section also) I got pregnant two and a half months after she was born. I gave birth to a healthy baby boy 11 months after she was born. My doctor did not let me go into labor, so I had another c-section with my son at 38 weeks. There was no option to VBAC. Anyway, my doctor did advise me to wait 6 months, but I couldn't wait, I wanted to be pregnant again, I am glad we did not wait. I am very sorry for your loss.
Erin