Jees its quiet around here !!! Hope that all the girls are well and things going well
AFM - We had our 28 week check scan and our lil man is thriving, doing really well , he has gained weight, nearly 3 lbs, and is measuring accuratly, they check for Interuterine growth restriction ( IUGR ) and thankfully all lookd well, so far so good, they told me no further scans warranted and that I'll get to meet him in few short weeks, well I'm hoping so hard he stays in for at least another 10 weeks !!!! I have delivered the 2 boys few weeks early too, so wouldnt be huge surprise !! Just would love his lil lungs to be fully functioning!!!
Spoke with DH too on way home, know he would have loved a daughter too, know our boys are still asking on a daily basis when can we have our baby girl, DS1 says he already has 1 lil brother, could holy god not have given him what he prayed for and why did he not get his wish of a baby sister . Its hard to answer, DH said we're done a 3 tho. I told him we'd really regret not having one last baby in 2 or 3 years time, he said he can live with that regret, I will have to also. Thing is I know I cant. I'm hoping I can convince him over time, hes worried about the risk, of having 4 boys , of having to move house, financially......... I just want 4, be that all boys or a mix, I KNOW I'd be complete then, no more babies for us after 4. We have bigger than average 4 bedroomed house, we'd definatly be able to comfortably fit 4 lil ones in there no probelm ! Financially, we have 2 secure jobs, thank god, good earners, but property investments are whats the problem, I know if we hadn't bought the 2 of them , we'd go for a 4th no probelm, if I can just make the recession go away and interest rates freeze !!!!! But when we sell them in few years time, and all would be ok, we'd regret not going for no 4, I know it would be my life long regret . God, sorry fot the rant !! Just all spilled out !!! How did the mamas of 3 convince their DH 's to go for 4 ???? Or is my DH the only man who needs convincing !!!!!!!
Anyway, hope everybodys well, chat soon, and mind yourselves,