I found a gender scan place about two hours away that does gender scans beginning at 15 weeks. I had a bad scan at 15w with DD3, but keep in mind the sonographer was not a typical OB sonographer. He worked in a family practice and was a friend and offered to take a peek. He told us boy 100%, which changed to DD3. My family is wanting to go to this place as early as next week to see the baby and find out what it is. I just want to see the baby. I don't want to know gender. DH is also against going because of our results last time. But I would think this would be different than last time since they're trained to determine gender so early.
Next Wednesday I will be 16 weeks, which would make things somewhat better. But my dates may be off by as much as a week going by my first ultrasounds. (On the last ultrasound baby was just two or three days off. On the ultrasound Friday evening in the ER he/she was just about on target.)
What would you do in this situation?