Kateyk

I thought unsupportive posts were swiftly removed. The sticky at the top of the GD forum is quite clear. It wouldnt be left on there, are there different rules here? 

Katey - I just read your message. I know you are having one of the worst days of your life, but please don't disappear from our board. You have been such a nice person to go through all of this HT stuff with. Your support is invaluable. Take a break from posting if you need it, but please stay with us, even if it's just to let us know how you're feeling, and how you're doing during your pregnancy. If you stop posting, you'll be terribly missed, and we'll worry about you.

cutebubs:

I thought unsupportive posts were swiftly removed. The sticky at the top of the GD forum is quite clear. It wouldnt be left on there, are there different rules here? 

It's handled. It's over. Drop it. Please.

kateyk:

Thanks everyone for your support.  I knew I might get judged when I posted but I didn't think the replies would hurt me, but, alas, they did.  I guess I am sensitive today.  Grits, you can remove my other thread and I am not going to post anymore updates on my pregnancy.  I'll still be on PM if anyone really wants to know and I'll still be reading the boards for all the people I care about going through their cycles.  I have gotten many kind PMs today.

you deserve the biggest load of virtual love and support we can give you. Im glad your having that bile removed. good luck Kateyk

look after your self. x

Kateyk my heart goes out to you, instead of rejoicing I can imagine your anxiety right now...  my SIL just had a termination at 14 weeks due to suspected Trisomy 18, in that week before the scheduled termination I prayed that things would happen "naturally" so she wouldnt have to be faced with that choice, but she had to go ahead with the procedure...

Things will work out in the end, your choices are your own, you need to do whats right for you and your family period. I respect you and value your honesty, in the little time Ive been on this site I always appreciated your posts and I hope and pray ALL the best for you!

 

Katey I don't post much on here but I do follow everyones journeys trying to gain as much info as possible so I will hopefully at some stage have a successfull cycle.  I just wanted to wish you all the best and hope that everything turns out as you wish.  My thoughts are with you.

Aw Kateyk. I was really hoping you would only have 2. I want to say congrats but at the same time I'm sorry you may be facing a SR. No matter what others say you need to do what is best for you and your family. Please know that you have all of my love and support. You will still find some of us that are not judgmental and will continue to support you here. If you do decide to leave I completely understand but you will be sadly missed

Get yourself onto the Zofran, it will help make you feel better. I took Zofran (& many more nausea meds) my entire pg and spent the first 4 month in hospital as I get incredibly sick. The Zofran was fine to take and didn't affect my boy at all, he is an amazing child.

I just wanted to say again that my heart goes out to you as I have been in your shoes.  Stay strong and rise above sweetie and try to enjoy the fact that your pg with your daughters!  Please let me know if you need to talk!

lovemymunchkin:

Katey - I just read your message. I know you are having one of the worst days of your life, but please don't disappear from our board. You have been such a nice person to go through all of this HT stuff with. Your support is invaluable. Take a break from posting if you need it, but please stay with us, even if it's just to let us know how you're feeling, and how you're doing during your pregnancy. If you stop posting, you'll be terribly missed, and we'll worry about you.

Just wanted to let you know kateyk that I am thinking of you, what a tough decision.. Please don't let other peoples comments deter you from posting on this board and updating us about your pregnancy. Even though I haven't posted much on this forum, I have been following your posts about your journey. They have been invaluable to so many of us who hope to embark on the HT road. I completely understand why you put 3 back in, I often thought I would do the same. The HT route is not easy or cheap, and many of us may only have one or maybe two shots at it for these reasons. You want to give it your best shot for a positive result, I totally understand that. I hope everything works out for you, naturally if possible. At least that would be kinder to you, and you wouldn't have to make that decision.

Sending you hugs, and wishing you peace for the coming weeks. We understand if you want a break from IG, but please know that most of us on here are not judging you. We support you and would love to hear updates on your pregnancy.... I'm sure the understanding people on this forum far outweigh those that don't...x

Good Luck.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Katey!!!  Please don't leave [:'(] No one has a right to dictate what you do with your body or make you feel bad for your decision.  Most of the people on here know that and do not think fondly of those who do not respect that. 

Well I've been offline and didn't read the other thread...

GL in whatever you decide!

Katey,

I would like to hear about your updates.  I will PM you if that is okay.  I am so sorry that you are going through such a tough decision.

You have helped me so much with the information on Dr. Braverman.  I hope to cycle with him.  I thank you for giving me the information on the 10 + 10 etc.  I thank you for continuing to answer all of my questions.  Finding out the information at least gave me some sought of plan.

Good luck Katey. 

I think about you often even though I do not know you in real life.

I cannot send PMs but I just want to wish you all the best. You have my silent support.

Katey, I just wanted to let you know you have the rights to do what you want & no one can Judge you or your decisions (do what is good for you & your family). So stay strong &most of the ladies here can understand what you are going through. It’s not an easy situation for a mother to go through all this. Whatever you decide to do I am sure god will understand your decisions & that is what all matters.

All I wanted to say is you & your babies will be in my prayers.Also pls. don’t leave the forum. Pls. do post your pregnancy updates as most of the ladies including me are concerned about you. I am sure you will get all the support from all of us..God bless