We'll be swaying girl. It'll be our first, so I wouldn't particularly mind a son first, but I don't want to get too consumed in worrying if I'll get my girl and miss out on truly enjoying my son's babyhood. So we'll do what we can to sway girl, and if it's still a boy, then I guess it's meant to be.
On a side note - to babydust - I'm so glad you're enjoying your son and new baby girl! Your girl is one of my favorites and I'll be using it when I plan mine. It's good to see that you'll be with us in 2012, maybe having you around will help keep me focused on following my girl sway since you seem to be good at sticking to it.