I think it is highly offensive to suggest once people have their DG they are no longer welcome...it's like "You got what you were after, now mSHOO, off with you, we don't ever want to see you again!" Sort of like a PUNISHMENT???
Before I got my DG, I mostly wanted to hear from people on here who HAD successfully conceived girls, so I could get tips and info. How silly to not be able to use their successful experience to hopefully then help others- I thought that was the whole idea?
as for worrying other posters might "feel offended"- I think it is thoughtless people in their lives, wider community that can make them feel that way, not fellow IG posters who know exactly where they are coming from!