It's so hard I think for so many to close this chapter in our lives. I have 3 daughters and am on the fence about another but since I cannot afford antoher, I will not have one. DH will get a V in Jan. I just dont think it would be fair to the ones I have now to have a fourth. It would take so much away from them. When I think of that, it makes me feel better and I dont get that tugging for antoehr as much. As mothers, we are more emotional and the daddy's can look at this situation in a more intellectual, rational way. They werent the ones feeling that baby inside of them. How I hated to give birth to this one b/c I knew I wouldnt have that feeling ever again. We have alot of reasons to want to have more babies but as I said for me, I have to say no more for the sake of my family.
good luck to you!!!!