Not at all! Yes, my twins were IUI. I got pg on my very
first IUI attempt (which is not typical). I used Clomid and had 2
follicles (in other words, 2 eggs). We had a 92% X-sort. At
20 weeks, I found out I was having twins -- a boy and a girl.
They are now 4 1/2 and they are perfectly normal (well, perfectly
extraordinary!) I have never yet heard from anyone with an MS
baby that was not perfect (I have been in contact with perhaps 50).
To the previous poster who mentioned MS may harm the sperm. MS
does tire the sperm out somewhat, but otherwise there has been nothing
showing any damage. There have been some theoretical concerns
raised that the fluorescent dye that binds to the sperm's DNA might
possibly damage the DNA, however this concern has never been anything
but theoretical to my knowledge. MS has been tested in several
generations of animals. The same flow cytometry technique (under
another brand name that escapes me at the moment) is used in cattle to
control the sex of offspring.
MS is supposed to follow up with each child through one year to see if
there are any medical issues. They have published reports showing
the birth defects that have occurred (see the MS web site) and these
have been found to occur no more often than in the general
population. You have to remember that even if MS doesn't cause
birth defects, it doesn't protect you from them either. (Although
PGD will screen out some of them.) This was my worst nightmare
going into MS, knowing that if I had a baby with a birth defect I would
spend the rest of my life blaming myself and wondering if it was due to
MS.
Of course you should do all the research you can, but unfortunately,
evaluating the safety of MS is simply something we lay people are not
equipped to do, unless we happen to be molecular
geneticists. At some point you have to either take it on
faith, or decide to walk away -- and that is a hard decision to
make objectively when you want it to work very badly.
Best wishes in your decision,
Maureen