I am the girliest girl you can imagine. honestly, i have like 10000 pairs of high heels. I always thought i would have little girls...now that I have DS, I cant imagine not having him. He is a total little buddy, a mamma's boy. Sleeps with me every night because he likes to cuddle.
I kind of wanted a girl for number 2, but I am great with having a boy because if i have another one like DS, i would be a really lucky woman. I know you cant imagine it now, but you will have a little person, who has his own personality. now I find myself getting excited when I see dump trucks on the road because i know he will get excited.
also, i have a good friend who has two girls, biggest tomboys ever. cant stand shopping or anything pink. kind of the life is a box of chocolates thing.
my brother is a fighter pilot, very handsome, and you should see my mother (and every other lady)when he walks into a room. tears in her eyes every time. you will feel that way.
just give yourself time.