It must have been hard for you to have put so much effort in and then it not work!
I look at my second daughter and think, if I had known about swaying and had tried to engineer it I would not have her! I am hoping I will feel that way when the next one pops out but the other way round, if I had been spontanious like the first 2 then I would not have her!
I agree with what you say about swaying. All the theories work and sound incredibly sensible...however I have studied one of the spreadsheets in an attempt to make myself feel better. I have found examples such as, DTD 5 days before ovulation and PH was 4.5 (so bit acidic), done girl diet, no big O...perfect for girl, but no its a BOY! I think the majority of posts on here are about sways that have worked, that might have been nothing to do with the sway. it might have worked anyway.
I will read your post again when I feel a bit low because I am a bit up and down at the moment. It will spur me on because it was very very positive and with many wise words!
Thank you so much.