Hi tayls I have a question for you. Can you pretend this is your last month ttc . You are doing diet
for 5weeks, sups,ions etc and going on holiday and having to end diet as impossible to conceal with family and dh also had enough of sups etc. What would you do?Hi everyone I am having my last ttc month before I come off the diet
as I am going on holiday with family and will not be able to continue
with diet .Last month I did o+12 one attempt and bfn. I am getting stressed as know this is the best it will ever be for me and want that bfp! Shall I stick to abstain and o+12 and do multiple attempts then? Shall I do cut off and abstain ? I think I could manage 4hourly checks day and night and using lime tampon in-between. Shall I do frequent bd all month through o and everything to get bfp whilst I have all the other factors in place? My dh has been fab but this is the last month I can put him through it! I am up with insomnia now and need to get this plan sorted so I can relax and switch off this computer finally for my attempt. Please help with your opinions.
Hi up, like tayls said this is personal decision, but I understand the feeling of wanted just to be pregnant, if you just really want a healthy baby, just do what your heart tell you to do.
for me last month was cut off, this month probably will be O+12, next month cut off and O+12 if is on a weekend, by oct, if I'm not pregnant Im going with frequent BD, since I dont think this diet is healty to stay any longer than 4 - 5 months, in my case I do want a girl with all my heart, I believe as much as all of us here (that's why we are here) but as good mothers we at the end when we hold that beautiful baby in our arms for the fist time, no matter what sex it is, is going to still our hearts forever, and we will love that precious baby and never regret it.
when I find out I was expecting my second boy I was so sad, when he was born of course I fall in love with him, now he is my loving and huggable one, my old one only cares about run around and sports, this little guy spend mayority of the time sitting with me or by me even when I'm cooking, and is always kissing me, I really want to give my self a good sway because this will be our last baby,
If in your heart you only want a baby and not care about the sex, when the time comes do what ever you feel is going to bring you that BFP and that healthy baby, and dont stress, remember that sway boy