I voted "SAHM should attempt to do as much as possible" because I think in THEORY that is what I should be doing, what is expected of me, etc. However, I never get anything done. Between my own ADD, my kids and their possbile ADD, and my messy husband, forget it. I do feel bad about this, since my husband works all day and should get to come home to a clean house, dinner on the table, etc. Most days, though, that is not the case. How did those ladies do it all in the 50's????