I am just curious as I see alot of ppl talking about SIL's,Sisters,friends and or family member/s going on to have the desired gender and be quite obnoxious about it? If thats the case can you share you stories of who it was and what they did?
I did have this happen...I was preggo w/my 2nd son and my SIL was pregnant with her first daughter(the only grandaughter on my hubbies side)
it was rough to see the over abundnace of attention her baby/she got...the talk of princess and the amazement of "Oh the first grandaughter after so many boys!" hurt like hell and she loved to remind me of it too..(even tho funny enough no-one knows I ever wanted a girl but my mom...I have a good poker face too) She assumed I wanted one because I had so many boys.
Our babies resembled each other at birth I mentioned that and she said"Ya but shes a girl." "He cant wear pink." "Shes my princess."
Its funny how she has a son who she blatantly doesn't care as much for as her DD which makes it worst...her typical gender stereo type comments "Ughh boys are so rough and rude."
"Oh hes a boy I don't care what he wears." (and it shows!)
It has tamed some since my news...she ended up having another boy which she prayed for another girl with. So I feel sorry for him.
Dh's family unknowingly made it worst...the whole everything pink and princess gifts,her being grandpas princess, always referring to her as the princess...ugghh...the things I have had to DEAL w/ that...
I am surprised I am not insane!(maybe)
Yes I have a
but it doesnt mean I can't be on IG anymore or offer my support on the Gd board! 




"When the world says give up,Hope whispers give it another try!" (thats how we got our jewels!)