was told yesterday ..

I hope the masage and accupressure help, I wish I were getting them. Glad you got in so quickly, you're right it usually does take 2-3 months but I am glad they got you in sooner. You know how I feel, we talked about it the other day. So big hugs and lots of support. Update soon as you can.

I truely hope that you feel better very soon.  (((Hugs)))

soulfire76:

I hope the masage and accupressure help, I wish I were getting them. Glad you got in so quickly, you're right it usually does take 2-3 months but I am glad they got you in sooner. You know how I feel, we talked about it the other day. So big hugs and lots of support. Update soon as you can.

 

i wish I was going in for taht!

I am only getting a psychologist.. massage woudl be nice!! lol 

accupressure wouldn't help seeing as those signals aren't being received in teh brain.. ..

((Hugs)) 

 Diane sweetie, I wish you could take my offer and let me help you. You have helped me so much, I wish I could be there for you  In any case I am here for you ANYTIME you need me. I have a good ear to lend and a nice strong shoulder for you to lean on 

Oh hun, DO NOT worry about not being able to go into labour naturally.  They have absolutely NO WAY of knowing something like that.  Yes, when you are stressed, it can postpone, or stall labor.  It's like in nature - when a cat becomes spooked while in labor, she can actually stop it, so she can move to a safer place to birth.  Birth is an incredible thing like that.

When your little Noella is ready, she will send out signals... and you will receive them. You still have some time to go before you even hit your due date, and sure - chances are she could be a bit late from all the stress - but things WILL work out, and you will go into labor.  Babies can't stay in there forever  You body is just kind of like a cat, waiting to be in a safe place before she can deliver... iykwim?  Just work on getting your mind in a safe place.

Whoops, probably should of finished reading all the comments before I posted. Yes, the fight or flight thing can be very real... but that doesn't mean you aren't going to go into labor.  YOU WILL.  (just clarifying, because I don't want you to think what I said in the previous post is backing up the midwives claims of not going into labor.  You will.  You still have a couple of weeks until the baby is "due" and babies are just as often late as they are early   So don't be discouraged.  It can go either way, and Noella will come when she is ready) Feel better

hun I was in a state with my second and have been a little stressed not as much but a little with this one the for a couple of weeks could they induce you that help I was induced at 38 weeks and it help I just couldnt bare 2 more weeks and im starting to feel that now but where im having the baby i doubt will induce me so Im stuck and remember to try and relax as I dont whaat to stall labour either I hope Im making some progress down there cheers Tany

You are only 38 weeks and the dialated thing means crap.  With my first, I was shut tight and then by the next week my water broke.  Doesn't mean a thing.