Thank you all so much for your prayers and positive thoughts.
As an alternative vaccinator, I have the utmost respect for parents making their own informed decisions about their children's vaccines.
It is important for me to share about Mikey not only for support, but to give other parents an additional piece to the information puzzle.
Please, please be on the lookout for dehydration. Tears and a wet mouth do not equal hydration. Even my local ER did not know this. A child must be drinking and peeing at a decent rate in order to be possibly considered adequately hydrated.
Watch for neurological symptoms. The news does not report on this for some reason. Mikey lost his ability to swallow Friday morning. After extensive imaging, his neurologist believes that he has not lost his swallow forever, just temporarily. This flu, and possibly others?, can cause neurological deficits. Most are not permanent, but they can wreak havoc on a system even while transient.
If you take your child to a medical professional to be assessed, DO NOT leave until you believe your child has a decent plan for recovery that you feel comfortable administering. We were discharged from the ER four times by two different hospitals. My mommy panic was in overdrive and I was taking him to the ER multiple times a day.
Southernbelle, I read your post in CharlieCats' thread and I am so very sorry to hear this update. The pain of losing a child is unparalleled. Please let his mother know how deeply sorry I am. I wish her the utmost in peace and healing, as well as patience with herself while she navigates this new, terrifically tragic world.
Thank you again everyone for your support.
Remembering my tiniest baby. My daughter from petri dish #3, conceived 10.27.07, transferred 10.31.07, loved for always.
Wife to Jim, Mommy to David 12, Harry 7, George 5, Thomas 2, Michael our newborn, and Frank, forever my baby.
My precious Frank Charles, born and died 8.4.08 at 22 weeks, 2 days due
to placental abruption and PROM, and responsible for the most treasured
thirty minutes of my life.