Its not fair :(

 I'm so sorry.

You are right....it isn't fair. I hope you find a place that you feel more comfortable. That made a HUGE difference for me (changing clinics). I did have to do a little bit of drugs....lupron and progest. I think I had some pills too....can't remember. I will say this....it is SOOOOmuch easier!!!

So sorry. I hope you figure out what to do next.

I know how frustrated you feel. I did Micro PGD IVF transferred two blasts and ended up with an ectopic. Then tried 2 more cycles without any success. It's so hard to keep going with another cycle. More drugs, more monitoring, more blood drawn. Through a lot of heart ache and prayer I decided that Gods power is beyond my control and no matter how I try to have a son he is going to either give me one or not. I decided to stop with my cycles and here I am expecting my 4th girl which just confirms my thoughts of God is in control his will is not known by me but this little girl is what he knew I needed. Good luck to you and maybe it's time to put it in the Lord's hands you may be blessed with that baby girl or he may feel you need a little boy. Just have faith and although I sooooooooooooo badly still want a son I am so excited for this little girl. Good luck and you will figure out what's best for you

Oh I'm so sorry to hear that

(((hugs)))

Kiwidreamer, I also had my frozen embryos stored at HRC in US and was planing to bring them to my local doctor. I did all papeworks, investigations about transport, legal part, etc., spent for about one year doing this just to know that in the end I actually couldn´t bring embryos to my country. Because Microsort was done of them and if so, they don´t let you to take them out of the country. Have you done MS? If so, try to check this point.

I'm really sorry  I would give an FET a chance when you're up for it

I'm so sorry to hear that......go forFET cycle. I had FET cycle ,  and now i'm pregnant. So don't loose hope If you need any help or information message me i'll be more then happy to help you.

Thankyou so much for your lovely reply girls. We are definitely thinking about a FET, however, we only have one girl to transfer, so I dont like our chances.

One thing id love to know is, why did I just get back from the supermarket and have to run inside to throw up!??. If im not pregnant, then why is my body telling me I am?. It has me consfused, thats for sure!

I am sorry about your BFN but I would definitely do the FET.  It does only take one.  PIO gives you the same side affects as actually being pregnant.  You have been on a ton of meds and my doc told me some women do better with FETs b/c of all the meds.  Good luck with your next steps.

Thanks bbbaby - I will look into this.  Yes we had MS but so far no one has mentioned that as an obstacle.  I will be really annoyed if that is the case as we made it clear from the start that we wanted to bring any back with us and at no point were we told MS would prevent that.  Why is that the case?  Would you be able to let me know??  Thanks!

WMP - hope you are going OK.

Still thinking of you WMP.  Many your way.

Just saw this and want to say I am so sorry too...it is heartbreaking. I had a BFN in August and still struggle w/ it...somedays are really hard. I have 4 frozen embryos that I am hoping to transfer (2 or 3 of them) early next year. This is it for me and I pray it works. I know how difficult this is b/c I still feel the affects of it. ((HUGS)) Hope it works out in the end for you!