All UK SMOG wannabies please come here October 2009

Hi there CT! Really curious to hear about your scan as I also live in Kent and am considering going to this 'nub specialist' once I'm pregnant

hi ladies sorry it has taken a while to get back, im devasted he thinks its a boy, i dont know what to do now, sorry if i dont post for a while im crushed, i did everything i could why is this life so unkind,

 Cottontales - I'm so sorry you didnt get to hear pink - I remember how you feel, its not a nice place, it will get better soon, take care x

Hi ladies, hope you are all well.  Sorry I'm not posting much yet, we are half way through doing our attic and the house is just upside down constantly, so not getting much computer time. 

Cottontales, sending you big (((((hugs))))) xx

cottontales:

hi ladies sorry it has taken a while to get back, im devasted he thinks its a boy, i dont know what to do now, sorry if i dont post for a while im crushed, i did everything i could why is this life so unkind,

(((((HUGS!))))) You must be surprised to hear this news. We are all here for you so talk away. I never had real GD with either sons - just the realisation I really would never get my DD after DS2's birth but I can still imagine how you feel. I think they say time helps. When you feel baby move and kick I am sure your little boy will become more real for you. Take a break from IG if you need too but we are here for you, you are NEVER alone and we reallly know how you feel and care for you xxx

cottontales:

hi ladies sorry it has taken a while to get back, im devasted he thinks its a boy, i dont know what to do now, sorry if i dont post for a while im crushed, i did everything i could why is this life so unkind,

So,so sorry.  I hope he is wrong.  (((HUGS)))

cottontales:

hi ladies sorry it has taken a while to get back, im devasted he thinks its a boy, i dont know what to do now, sorry if i dont post for a while im crushed, i did everything i could why is this life so unkind,

Oh CT, I'm so very sorry...I have been thinking about you loads. Has the Kent Doc ever been wrong? Was he very sure? Really hoping he has made a mistake and sending you big {{{{{HUGS}}}}}..............

xx

CT - Im so sorry to hear that (((hugs)))

It's still early days, he *thinks* boy but nt 100%.  CC is obsessed with nubs and she even gets it wrong sometimes.  TLM is right you should maybe put the pics on for guesses.

We are all here for you though...thinking of you xxx

Hi all

Indigo is your attempt coming up soon?  Are you making any changes to your plan this month?  Really that this is your month

Ct, we are all still thinking of you and are here for you if you need anyone to talk to

Everyone who's due to attempt, good luck xx

hiladies, well have cried for 3days now, feel so down, where did i go wrong? was so sure this was my girl, was there anymore i could have done, this was our last baby, i didnt want 4 boys, i dont know what to do, i know my options just cant decide either way,

hope everyone else is ok and thank you for messages,

cottontales:

hiladies, well have cried for 3days now, feel so down, where did i go wrong? was so sure this was my girl, was there anymore i could have done, this was our last baby, i didnt want 4 boys, i dont know what to do, i know my options just cant decide either way,

hope everyone else is ok and thank you for messages,

You didn't do anything wrong! Your plan looked great - far better than most could manage and better than I could do. Don't beat yourself up guesing what you did or didn't do right. I have seen people doing the extreme sways with swim up get the gender they didn't plan for. Nothing works 100%. Even PDG is no gaurantee as it does NOT gaurantee a BFP.

((((HUGS!!!))))

 CT - i'm so sorry you didn't hear 'girl' hun. I know how much it hurts when you've swayed and don't get what you tried for, it makes it so much harder :(

I cried everyday for three weeks after my shettles attempt didn't work out, but it did get easier to accept in time. Don't blame yourself, you didn't do anything wrong. Also, you never know for sure what the future might bring, maybe a dd will come along when you least expect it. I was so sure i wouldn't have any more after DS3, and now i'm ttc no5!

Thinking and praying for you, sending you lots of hugs (((())))

CT - You didn't go wrong at all, you tried your best.  Just remember we are here to support you (((hugs))) x

I was wondering how Ribbons is getting on? If your lerking let us know how baby is doing xxx