Opposites

Well, May is springtime in NY and it gets warmer, so that means more negative ions,  it gives me a good 5 months to get pregnant, I wouldn't have a baby in the middle of winter, I probably wouldn't have to work the majority of my pregnancy, and it also just "feels" right to us.

I'm thinking that if I dont' O during the new moon in May I will use the spermicidal condom method, and then try without the condom in June no matter what.  But if I O during a new moon in May then no hole in the condom for us.

What makes Feb. the month for you?

I know, it's sooo hard to be patient, but your ttc month is around the corner :)

You really shouldn't base your decision off of those stats.. they are simply just numbers that don't hold a ton of meaning.  MANY people who sway don't come back and update once they find out gender. 

I'm not saying those numbers are made up, they are the numbers that are on IG - but they really don't mean much if you are trying to decide if swaying "works" or not.

Chachamama:

You really shouldn't base your decision off of those stats.. they are simply just numbers that don't hold a ton of meaning.  MANY people who sway don't come back and update once they find out gender. 

I'm not saying those numbers are made up, they are the numbers that are on IG - but they really don't mean much if you are trying to decide if swaying "works" or not.

yep, I agree, take those stats with a grain of salt.  You have to do what you feel comfortable with and what you know you won't regret if you conceive an opposite.  If that is TBM or SU then you should go for it.  I am not comfortable with that, so I'm not going that route, but that is my only reason for not trying it.  I think that they are good methods and they do make for a good sway.

 I have to say I'm moving further away from SU cos the stats are so very low. I dont feel that I can go on two results. Defo will be doing TBM though as er...We really struggle not ensure there is no big O for me!!! (Sorry far TMI)

babydust292:

You have to do what you feel comfortable with and what you know you won't regret if you conceive an opposite

Totally Agree! Each to there own. They are all good methods after all and what is meant to be will be x

pixiecat-glitterdoll:

Totally Agree! Each to there own. They are all good methods after all and what is meant to be will be x

, but it is hard deciding what is good for you, that takes time...so talking it out IG is definitely helpful! :)