TTC BLUE CREW GRADS: 'FALLing in Love with our new babies!'

maria glad u have that big smile...

hcmk iam taking the B complex in the morning and i feel nothing all day.. i start feeling so sleepy and tiered so early... i hate that my DD used to sleep late with us.. DH back home late too from work so i feel finished after 11pm

Thanks ladies. I will definately try to start the B6 tomorrow morning. If it doesn't work alone, I may consider adding the unisom. I just know with my last pregnancy that I got SO sick of ginger! And it didnt completely get rid of it either, just helped a little.

People online take so many different doses. Im wondering how much to take. I was thinking 50mg in the morning and 50mg at night, is that too much?

When I had REALLY bad M/S with my first DD my doctor told me to take 25mg of B6 three times a day. I took it with my second DD also. I found most of the time that my prenatals kicked my butt and made me REALLY sick so I also took two Flinstones chewables instead of one prenatal. I took one in the morning and one in the evening. It really helped! I also used Sea Bands (you can get them at Walgreens) and they helped some too. Nothing really made it go away though. HAHA! Sorry to hear you are sick so early. I don't at all look forward to that!

Dh and I had a long talk on our way home and I came to the conclution that swaying or possibily another baby at this time is not for me:

I applaud those woman who have both genders, are able to have more children or where able to convince their dh's to conceived one more time.

Im going on a loooooong IG break. Damn, its going to be hard I spend 2 years of my life here and chat with many wonderfull ladies and Im seeing some ladies come back to IG after an opposite lately not ttc ofcourse.

Dh says that he feels overwhelmed at the moment and that he is happy with the 4 kids that we have. He feels pressure....I made some good points but everything that I said he ended responding, "NO" or "not right now". His excuses! His biggest concern is that I dont spend enough time with the kids or with him that I devote all my attention to the pc. Also, that I need to get more involved with the kids and that my tenage dd1 is growing up. Ok. He says he feels tired of driving and has a long commute he want me doing everything as much as him. So I decided that Im not going to sway and whatever happends...happends. My whole family knows now that I log for another baby. My own mother suggested that I should stop that 4 that its a good number or unless I can convince dh and she will be happy to take care of the baby.  My dh is very active and very demanding person. He expects things and he is hard on himself. He has issues with drinking and drugs and he admits it.  I hate to leave this way and I love being here but I  thing is time for me to go for now. I actually wanted to see myself leaving IG with a baby in my arms but I see that its not possible and I have to give dh's way. I know Im stupid for letting him step over but I guess this is the right way until he decides that when is the right time. My desire for another baby will always be there. I guess I have to go with the flow.

teena:

KSN when you are going to test?

Teena.. thanks for asking I have not attempted yet.. will be doing in November...

Maria....................

another14meplz:

Dh and I had a long talk on our way home and I came to the conclution that swaying or possibily another baby at this time is not for me:

I applaud those woman who have both genders, are able to have more children or where able to convince their dh's to conceived one more time.

Im going on a loooooong IG break. Damn, its going to be hard I spend 2 years of my life here and chat with many wonderfull ladies and Im seeing some ladies come back to IG after an opposite lately not ttc ofcourse.

Dh says that he feels overwhelmed at the moment and that he is happy with the 4 kids that we have. He feels pressure....I made some good points but everything that I said he ended responding, "NO" or "not right now". His excuses! His biggest concern is that I dont spend enough time with the kids or with him that I devote all my attention to the pc. Also, that I need to get more involved with the kids and that my tenage dd1 is growing up. Ok. He says he feels tired of driving and has a long commute he want me doing everything as much as him. So I decided that Im not going to sway and whatever happends...happends. My whole family knows now that I log for another baby. My own mother suggested that I should stop that 4 that its a good number or unless I can convince dh and she will be happy to take care of the baby.  My dh is very active and very demanding person. He expects things and he is hard on himself. He has issues with drinking and drugs and he admits it.  I hate to leave this way and I love being here but I  thing is time for me to go for now. I actually wanted to see myself leaving IG with a baby in my arms but I see that its not possible and I have to give dh's way. I know Im stupid for letting him step over but I guess this is the right way until he decides that when is the right time. My desire for another baby will always be there. I guess I have to go with the flow.

Maria... I feel so sad for you You have been through a lot of struggle with TTC.. Hoping only the best for you... remember many women IRL get their boys even without swaying.. and you already proved that once... Hope God blesses you with the much desired son in future soon We will miss you

Maria - I'm so so sorry. I hope that things get better for you and your DH. Sending you lots of and hugs.

Awesome news-  Congratulations!!!!!!

Congrats on your girl- I couldn't imagine life without my precious dd's.  The best thing about girls...THEY LOVE TO CUDDLE:))

OMG...Big Contratulations HCMK. wooo...hoooo I am so happy for you. You must be over the moon. It's great news.

We are enjoying on vacation. Our attempt will be in couple of days. still getting -ve OPK. DH is very excited for attempt and absteinance is killing him.

Kelly ~ Congrats for your little girl.

I haven't go through all posts popping very quickly. I will catch you later.

Best wishes for Groovy, Sush, Hopeful, Sama, MM, Ruth, Teena, 7lilpigs  & other pregnant ladies.

Maria~ I'm so sorry you are going through this, I wish you the best. I hope things get better with DH and you can find a middle ground.

Big ((HUGS))

Good morning ladies

I have my 20 week u/s today, I'm so excited I can't wait till see how the baby has grown. I will post my pics in the March due date buddies forum when I get home this afternoon. Please send me positive thoughts that she is healthy and everything is progressing as normal.

girls2mama:

It's not you, it's me and it has nothing to do with this thread either, it's just being dragged in here. 

I apologize that my frustration and sadness has angered or upset any of you. I do know that I'm lucky to be pg. I do hope that my baby is healthy. I'm just sad I'll never have a son. If you already have a son, you probably can't imagine how that really feels. If you haven't lost a son, it might be hard to imagine how this feels like losing him all over again. Many thanks to those of you who've lent a virtual shoulder to cry on and not judged me for my feelings. I appreciate it more than you'll ever know.

Kelly, you must be going through such a difficult time right now and you should be allowed to vent.  I can imagine that if i dont hear boy i will be hurt, angry, bitter and everything else horrible that goes with it.  I wont be proud of myself for feeling like that but i know i will go through a terrible time where i will question everything!!

When you are so upset it gets difficult to appreciate that you are lucky to be pregnant and i fully understand why you are feeling this way (because i would be the same).

Some people can just accept the news that they are not going to get the gender they desire and they can just move on but people with GD need more time and need to get all the negative emotions out of their system.  You should be allowed to feel the way you do for as long as it takes until you are ready to feel better.

I do hope you find peace with your situation and wish you all the best in your journey.

Still hope to see you and rebirtha on IG 

Onedream - GL with your attempt

Gina - SO sorry AF showed, how frustrating!!  But wishing you the best for your next attempt 

Maria - So sorry about your situation.  It feels strange to hear you say you are going on an IG break.  Youve been here since i joined and you feel so much a part og the BC.  It wont be the same without you.  I hope you can still pop in from time to time but its totally upto you and how you feel about coming back on to IG.  I Hope things turn out the way you want them to and wishing you a happy future